For now, here's a story about the Saturday before we left on our trip.
Goat Story #1
Remember
Sebastian from my first spotlight post?
This morning we rented a public bus (called a daladala) and drove over
an hour to Nduruma, the village where Sebastian’s family lives, for a goat
slaughter. In Maasai culture, goat
slaughters are saved for special occasions, which in this case was our
visit. The road to Nduruma was very
rough, and I was glad to finally make it to the town.
First, we went
to his immediate family’s house, where his parents, sisters, son, and
girlfriend live. While the family lives
in Maasai land and practices traditional Maasai customs of herding their cattle
and goats around their farmland, their house was very much a middle class
Tanzanian house. They had electricity and a TV in a living room with couches
and chairs. They also didn’t wear
traditional Maasai clothing. Sebastian’s
sister actually lives in the US in Missouri, so his mother has visited the US
before. I’ll avoid too many details
about the goat, but we did learn (and get to practice) how to skin and prepare
the goat for roasting.
While the goat
was being roasted, we took an hour walk across Sebastian’s family’s farmland,
looking at his crops and eventually reaching his grandmother’s Maasai boma
(village compound). His grandmother and
some aunts/uncles/cousins still live in the traditional circular thatched roof
homes and his grandmother wears traditional Maasai clothing. All of his little cousins go to school, but
don’t have a lot of money for supplies.
Sebastian’s family was so sweet and welcoming and allowed us to look
inside the traditional Maasai homes. All
of his family spoke both Swahili, Maasai, and a little bit of English.
We then
returned back to Sebastian’s family’s home and ate goat, ugali, and cucumber
salad for a late lunch. It was pretty
good! Goat is not typically my choice of
meat, but I was very appreciative for the warm welcome from his family and for
showing us Maasai culture.
Sebastian's family (from left to right). Maryam (Sebastian's girlfriend), Johnson (Sebastian's son), Sebastian (in the red shirt), Lightness (sister), and his parents (on the right). |
At Sebastian's grandma's house. All of the Duke students with Sebastian's cousins and his bibi (grandma), who is sitting front and center. |
Goat Story #2
After returning
from Nduruma I headed over to Sakina, where my previous host family lives, for
a wedding reception. My two host
sisters, Gladys and Irene, decorate for weddings, communions, etc., so they let
me crash one of the weddings for which they had decorated. I had never been to a Tanzanian wedding and
had heard about the infamous goat “cake” that is brought to weddings, so I
jumped at the opportunity to attend.
I was running
late, but the reception didn’t end up starting until the designated end
time. Hakuna matata, that’s Swahili
time! The chairs were all set up facing
the front, so the guests were basically an audience to the bride and groom
table. The bride was Maasai, so her
family was dressed in traditional Maasai clothing. I’m not sure what ethnic group the groom was,
but his family was dressed up in regular clothing. They were such a beautiful
couple! There was a DJ and master of
ceremonies running the show. Different
groups of friends and family members danced up the aisles to present gifts and
congratulate the bridal party.
Then, the
moment I was waiting for! The goat cake
arrived, which is actually not a cake at all, but a dead goat prepared especially
for weddings. The goat is standing up on
a cart and the head is preserved, with some leaves or flowers stuffed into the
mouth. The bride and groom cut the
“cake” together and feed each other pieces of goat meat. Then they give pieces of goat to the maid of
honor and best man, flower girl and ring bearer, and each of their immediate
family members.
After some more
dancing up to congratulate the bride and groom, dinner was served buffet style,
which included spaghetti, meat stew, orange, various vegetables, rice,
etc. Overall, a very successful wedding
and successful day of goats!
The bride and groom with the goat cake! |
Word of the
day: mbuzi - goat